Monday, February 13, 2012

5 Ways to get rid of your Boyfriend

Every relationship is based on mutual respect, love and passion, if one trait is missing, the relationship is not successful. When Relationship becomes difficult it’s time to think of break-up.

It is a hard process and become much harder when one is undecided about it. There are few signs that will help a girl to decide when it is really over like when her boyfriend cheats on her, abuse her verbally or physically, when romance is over, and when girl friend realizes that there is no future with him.

Running out from situation is not a solution of ending a relationship. Mentioned below are the 5 ways to get rid of your boyfriend:

• Some people erroneously try to be impolite so that their partner cannot say anything. But it is a totally inaccurate manner. Have respect for him and tell him courteously that it is just not working for you and this may sadly have to be the end.

After giving this clear intimation, tell him the grounds and say that the dilemma is not solvable. You do not have to give exact details as he may try to say I can handle and stuff. But be polite and gentle and say that it is not important.

• Be straightforward talking and above all, be honest. After having the break up with your boyfriend, answer any questions they have in a down to earth manner. This will show you are a good friend too. Don’t expect them to be friends immediately. However, showing them respect now will increase the likelihood of developing a strong friendship later.

• Be very emotional for little things even. Men are afraid of emotional behavior. Keep him bored by discussing your whole day’s activity, in which he will not be interested.

Criticize his actions and opinion, because they dislike such who does not give value to their opinion. Wear the dresses and accessories which he does not like. If he does not like heavy makeup, do it. In such way he will start to hate you.

• If you do not want to keep any relation with your boyfriend then easiest way is simply disappear. Do not give him reply in any way. Change your email, phone number, instant messenger.

No contact rule is best way to get rid of your boyfriend. Do not keep any contact with him at least for 30 days. After some period your feeling about him will less volatile and then it will be easy for you to get rid of him.

• Make sure the break up is a solid full stop on the relationship and don’t confuse the break up by saying lines like "I need some time to myself". If you break up with your boyfriend, you owe it to them not to give false hopes.

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